I’m honored to invite you to share in this meaningful moment in Lu’s life—and in mine. Celebrating her Bat Mitzvah with the people we love gives this moment its deepest meaning.
— Ron
I’m honored to invite you to share in this meaningful moment in Lu’s life—and in mine. Celebrating her Bat Mitzvah with the people we love gives this moment its deepest meaning.
— Ron
Optional attendance but we'd love for you to join us!
Coffee and dessert Oneg follows service
Friday, February 13, 2026
6:30 - 8:00 pm
Temple Akiba, Culver City, CA
Dressy casual
In Jewish tradition, at age 13 a Bat Mitzvah marks the step into Jewish adulthood, with new responsibilities and obligations.
Temple Akiba of Culver City
5249 Sepulveda Blvd.
Culver City, CA 90230
Following the service
Raintree Clubhouse
Raintree Circle & Tara Terrace
Culver City, CA 90230
A Bat Mitzvah (literally "daughter of the commandment") is a coming of age ceremony for Jewish girls when they reach the age of 12 or 13. This ceremony traditionally marks the time when a girl becomes a Jewish adult. This means that they are now responsible for their own actions and can decide for themselves how they would like to practice Judaism.
Guests often worry about “getting it right,” but there’s a wide range of attire at Reform services. Saturday daytime services tend to be a bit dressier than Friday night, but the overall goal is simply to dress comfortably and respectfully. If you’d wear it to a nice family gathering, you’ll fit right in. Best to stay away from shorts, jeans, tank tops, and flip-flops. Friday night, jackets and ties are optional, not required. Saturday, they are common but not mandatory.
Kippot (yarmulkes, traditional head coverings) and tallit (prayer shawls) are not required for our non-Jewish guests. You are, of course, welcome to wear a kippah if you’d like — and it could even help keep your head warm. We’ve provided custom kippot for our guests, which also make lovely keepsakes of Lu’s special day, and we encourage you to take one as you enter the sanctuary. Most important to us is that you feel comfortable and welcome.
Probably not — and it’s best to keep that Google translator tucked away in your purse or jacket. 😊 Fortunately, everything is translated in the prayer books, and we encourage you to follow along at whatever pace feels comfortable.
Parking is available in the rear of the Centinela Feed lot adjacent to the temple, as well as along the temple wall — both areas are reserved for Temple Akiba guests. Please avoid parking in the front of the store, and tempting though it may be, steer clear of the spot marked “Reserved for Head Rabbi.” If the lot is full, there’s plenty of street parking available along Sepulveda.
It goes by faster than you think. Friday night services last about an hour, followed by a dessert oneg and social time for another 45 minutes to an hour. Saturday morning services are about an hour and a half, with a relaxed kiddush lunch afterward that lasts about an hour or so. Between watching Lu lead the service after all her hard work — and a special surprise she has in store — the time tends to fly by, and hopefully you’ll be clamoring for more.
Black tie. Picture James Bond and Honey Ryder.
As for parking — this is a bit of a challenge, as guest parking within the Raintree grounds is limited. All guests will check in with the guard at the gate, who will confirm that your name is on the VIP guest list and direct you to on-site parking if spaces are available. If not, parking is available along Jefferson Boulevard with a short walk in. Rideshare is encouraged — and for the adventurous, it’s a great opportunity to experience Waymo and its driverless cars.
The reception runs from 6:00–10:00 p.m.; please allow a little extra time for parking and the walk to the clubhouse.
RAINTREE
Lu is a seventh grader at Culver City Middle School and a member of the Temple Akiba community, where she has been studying and preparing for this day for the past four years. She loves dogs of all kinds and books of every sort — her two favorite things — along with playing the violin, spending time with her friends and family, Roblox, and, most recently, developing an intense curiosity about forensic science.
It remains something of a mystery that she complains so passionately about going to school, given that she has earned straight A’s every year since kindergarten, including in Accelerated Math and Advanced Orchestra. Her greatest joys include sleeping very late on weekends and displaying extraordinary creativity when inventing reasons not to do chores.
Above all, Lu is known for her incredibly kind heart. She is deeply grateful to all the friends and family who have come together to celebrate this milestone with her.